I had a friend I’ve known since she was in grade school, who is turning 30 this year tell me that she didn’t think her husband liked the way she looked anymore. She had 3 kids and although she exercises she feels her body is in bad shape. Her husband has always told her he loves her and how she looks but she thinks he’s lying. Womens lingerie these days is all about making you feel sexy as well as “look” sexy. I’m glad that the ads are not pushing the unrealistic need to be a model to be sexy. I had her watch some commercials I found online and took her to the lingerie store to try some things on and it changed her whole perspective.